I've often asked my mother if she would like to travel -- to London, Paris, Rome -- since she's rarely been out of the country. I've always assumed she must want to see the sights she's read so much about since she was a little girl, but she's been adamant that she'd rather not. I still have hopes of dragging her at least to London and other parts of England, but as I've begun my own migration from a lifetime of devouring books, reading them for plot and excitement and escape, towards a more conscious reception of the relationships between literature and life, it's clear that she doesn't need to move far afield to live a life rich in understanding and experience, her love of books has given her that and more. It's been there in front of my eyes for the past forty years and more, I've just been in too much of a hurry to notice.
It's disconcerting to admit that it's only in my fifth decade that I've started to read descriptions, savor sentences, perceive referential quotes and begin to see, understand, and even relish the use of symbols as added sources of power and meaning. Sadly, it is only now that I can abstract and use fiction as a way to think about life, morality, and love -- beyond the sheer momentum of the narrative at hand. It is humbling to discover that others were far quicker to make these leaps, but gratifying that they are willing to share their insights and wisdom with us laggards.
For the past several days I've been quickly moving through, with a clear intention of returning for a more leisurely reading, the first of several books, purchased during my most recent Amazon.com rampage, by Michael Dirda, a staff writer for The Washington Post Book World. Here is someone who has taken his lifelong love of books as a starting point for how to live and how to act in realms that transcend text, all while maintaining a wicked sense of humor. He has read the books I have and has insights that confirm and build upon my own thoughts. What is more fun is that he has read many things that I have not and discusses them, using frequent and apt quotations that make we want to drop everything and spend my days catching up.
It the great joys of reading books about books -- the interests and enthusiasm of other avid readers broaden my horizons and make me crave more: more time to read, more time to explore, more of the world outside of my own limited existence.
If you haven't already, go look for the compendiums by Nancy Pearl (Book Lust, More Book Lust, Book Crush) for a guide to reading that will take you beyond the tried and true stalwarts of the bestseller lists and popular paperbacks. I also recommend Jane Smiley's 13 Ways of Looking at the Novel, with it's wealth of hints on how to write and her perspective on one hundred novels from the earliest explorations of the form to recent award winners.
Then there's my current favorite, Francine Prose's Reading Like a Writer, a book that makes you excited about trying to create a perfect sentence, a profound paragraph, a great character. It's because she quoted the opening paragraph of Dicken's Dombey and Sons that I am curling up on the couch, when I'm not writing or knitting, and luxuriating in a world of strange and humorous characters, fabulous plot turns and perceptive social criticism. Dickens is perfect for late fall reading, after all who else could write:
"Dombey sat in the corner of the darkened room in the great arm-chair by the beside, and Son lay tucked up warm in a little basket bedstead, carefully disposed on a low settee immediately in front of the fire and close to it, as if his constitution were analogous to that of a muffin, and it was essential to toast him brown while he was very new."
A book that begins by comparing a baby to a muffin demands to be read.
And Mom, we are going to London, even if I have to kidnap you to do it. There are some things that cry out to be seen, even if you've already visited in your mind's eye.